When it comes to finding your own voice and meaning in your life you always encounter obstacles. But sometimes the greatest obstacle of all is to learn what it really means success.
For many of us, success means to make sense of our lives, actually do what we always dreamed. However, achieving this result is not easy. Experts say that true happiness lies more in finding your own “voice”, the only way you express your values and wishes. Discover your own way of being is not always easy, and sometimes can feel strange. The relations specialist Natalie Gahrmann shares with us how women can stay focused and firm progress toward our goals , no matter what challenges arise along the way.
Divide your goals
Create an action plan and focus on small steps to reach your goal. “Buy an agenda and plans a series of projects that lead you in the right direction,” says Gahrmann. “But be realistic about what you can really accomplish in your busy life.”
Write your goals and read them aloud
Written goals seem more concrete and achievable. Read aloud not only make you feel more motivated and committed to listen, but also give you clues about the life you really want to live and what you want to achieve.
Draw strength from your past accomplishments is essential to keep you motivated and feel successful. Focus on your accomplishments but fear not analyze your past mistakes. “Your failures are a learning opportunity,” says Gahrmann. But do not stop there. You feel successful is more about how you think what you’ve accomplished.